Tuesday, November 8, 2011

You need friends.



… because standing in a fountain in front of the Eiffel Tower isn't fun if you're by yourself.


The quantity (and, let's be honest, quality) of posts has been lacking of late. This is because I'm in Week 5 (but who's counting?) of a massive revision of The Silagree. Any extra energy I have at the end of the day has to be used to open the liquor cabinet, so blogging has fallen by the wayside.

But this isn't a post about blogging guilt. It's about appreciating those wonderful creatures who respond to texts such as, "I AM STARTING A PIG FARM!!!" or reply to emails you've written drunk and/or mildly panicked.

They're called friends.

I am so so so so so so so grateful for mine.

The last couple of weeks have been rough. I've reached a point where I hate my ms so much that I might have given up on it if it wasn't for these lovely ladies. Not only do they let me send them crazy texts/emails/pics/Tweets, but they also humour me when I start talking about the aforementioned pig farm. They distract me when I'm losing my mind (which is at least once an hour) and offer me so much advice they could write a self-help book or two.

For reals.

But more than that, it's the enthusiasm and belief in my book, especially when I don't have any. It's all the nice things they say to talk me off the ledge. It's the willing offers to read and critique my work.

Did I mention I was grateful?

When I consider my current crazed mental-state, I can only shudder to think what I'd be like if I didn't have my writing friends.* It's highly possible I would have given up. Or I'd be living in a cave. Referring to myself in the third person. ("Jade haz the nice cave.")


If I'm ever lucky enough to get published, my acknowledgements will be a novel in itself.

Who else is grateful for their writing friends?

* Don't get me wrong, non-writing friends are great, but they don't really understand your attachment to the Optima font.

8 really deep and meaningful thoughts:

  1. Well, you know I expect you to keep me from starting my own pig farm soon, right? <3

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  2. Man, that pig farm is looking SO good right now... ;)

    Wouldn't be where I am without those writer friends, though, which is not in a cave or on a pig farm. YAY! :)

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  3. Oh yes... they're the best! They understand the crazy like no others! :) I like the idea of a pig farm, though. :)

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  4. First of all, I'm sorry I missed the pig farm Tweets. One of the hazards of editing--I've fallen off the Twitterverse entirely.

    Secondly, pigs stink. Try a goldfish instead. But don't eat it. That would be weird.

    Third, writer friends are the best. Great post!

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  5. Pig farm?? LOL. Sorry I missed that! I think we'd all be lost without our writer friends for support and encouragement and pig farm tweets! :-)

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  6. *waves hand*

    ME! I loves my writer friends. :)

    (Also, you CANNOT start a pig farm because I desperately want to read The Silagree. *gives stern glare*)

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  7. So true! Non-writing friends think you're an anti-social shut-in. Writing friends know you're an anti-social shut-in with a PLAN!

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  8. I totally agree! You definitely need writer friends and I'm very grateful for mine.

    Good luck with your edits!

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